A Red Dress
A STORY
by Alice Munro

My mother was making me a dress. All through the month of November I would come from
school and find her in the kitchen,surrounded by cut­up red velvet and scraps of tissue­paper
pattern. She worked at an old treadle machine pushed up against the window to get the light, and
also to let her look out, past the stubble fields and bare vegetable garden, to see who went by on
the road. There was seldom anybody to see.
The red velvet material was hard to work with, it pulled, and the style my mother had chosen was
not easy either. She was not really a good sewer. She liked to make things; that is different.
Whenever she could she tried to skip basting and pressing and she took no pride in the fine
points of tailoring, the finishing of buttonholes and the overcasting of seams as, for instance, my
aunt and my grandmother did. Unlike them she started off with an inspiration, a brave and
dazzling idea; from that moment on, her pleasure ran downhill. In the first place she could never
find a pattern to suit her. It was no wonder; there were no patterns made to match the ideas that
blossomed in her head. She had made me, at various times when I was younger, a flowered
organdie dress with a high Victorian neckline edged in scratchy lace, with a poke bonnet to
match; a Scottish plaid outfit with a velvet jacket and tam; an embroidered peasant blouse worn
with a full red skirt and black laced bodice. I had worn these clothes with docility, even pleasure,
in the days when I was unaware of the world’s opinion. Now, grown wiser, I wished for dresses
like those my friend Lonnie had, bought at Beale’s store.
I had to try it on. Sometimes Lonnie came home from school with me and she would sit on the
couch watching. I was embarrassed by the way my mother crept around me, her knees
creaking, her breath coming heavily. She muttered to herself. Around the house she wore no
corset or stockings, she wore wedge­heeled shoes and ankle socks; her legs were marked with
lumps of blue­green veins. I thought her squatting position shameless, even obscene; I tried to
keep talking to Lonnie so that her attention would be taken away from my mother as much as
possible. Lonnie wore the composed, polite, appreciative expression that was her disguise in the
presence of grownups. She laughed at them and was a ferocious mimic, and they never knew.
My mother pulled me about, and pricked me with pins. She made me turn around, she made me
walk away, she made me stand still. “What do you think of it, Lonnie?” she said around the pins
in her mouth.
“It’s beautiful,” said Lonnie, in her mild, sincere way. Lonnie’s own mother was dead. She lived
with her father who never noticed her, and this, in my eyes, made her seem both vulnerable and
privileged.
“It will be, if I can ever manage the fit,” my mother said. “Ah, well,” she said theatrically, getting to
her feet with a woeful creaking and sighing, “I doubt if she appreciates it.” She enraged me,
talking like this to Lonnie, as if Lonnie were grown up and I were still a child. “Stand still,” she
said, hauling the pinned and basted dress over my head. My head was muffled in velvet, my
body exposed, in an old cotton school slip. I felt like a great raw lump, clumsy and
goose­pimpled. I wished I was like Lonnie, light­boned, pale and thin; she had been a Blue Baby.“Well nobody ever made me a dress when I was going to high school,” my mother said, “I made
my own, or I did without.” I was afraid she was going to start again on the story of her walking
seven miles to town and finding a job waiting on tables in a boarding­house, so that she could go
to high school. All the stories of my mother’s life which had once interested me had begun to
seem melodramatic, irrelevant, and tiresome.
“One time I had a dress given to me,” she said. “It was a cream­coloured cashmere wool with
royal blue piping down the front and lovely mother­of­pearl buttons, I wonder what ever became
of it?”
When we got free Lonnie and I went upstairs to my room. It was cold, but we stayed there. We
talked about the boys in our class, going up and down the rows and saying, “Do you like him?
Well, do you half­like him? Do you hate him? Would you go out with him if he asked you?”
Nobody had asked us. We were thirteen, and we had been going to high school for two months.
We did questionnaires in magazines, to find out whether we had personality and whether we
would be popular. We read articles on how to make up our faces to accentuate our good points
and how to carry on a conversation on the first date and what to do when a boy tried to go too
far. Also we read articles on frigidity of the menopause, abortion and why husbands seek
satisfaction away from home. When we were not doing school work, we were occupied most of
the time with the garnering, passing on and discussing of sexual information. We had made a
pact to tell each other everything. But one thing I did not tell was about this dance, the high
school Christmas Dance for which my mother was making me a dress. It was that I did not want
to go.
At high school I was never comfortable for a minute. I did not know about Lonnie. Before an
exam, she got icy hands and palpitations, but I was close to despair at all times. When I was
asked a question in class, any simple little question at all, my voice was apt to come out
squeaky, or else hoarse and trembling. When I had to go to the blackboard I was sure—even at
a time of the month when this could not be true—that I had blood on my skirt. My hands became
slippery with sweat when they were required to work the blackboard compass. I could not hit the
ball in volleyball; being called upon to perform an action in front of others made all my reflexes
come undone. I hated Business Practice because you had to rule pages for an account book,
using a straight pen, and when the teacher looked over my shoulder all the delicate lines
wobbled and ran together. I hated Science; we perched on stools under harsh lights behind
tables of unfamiliar, fragile equipment, and were taught by the principal of the school, a man with
a cold, self­relishing voice—he read the Scriptures every morning—and a great talent for
inflicting humiliation. I hated English because the boys played bingo at the back of the room while
the teacher, a stout, gentle girl, slightly cross­eyed, read Wordsworth at the front. She
threatened them, she begged them, her face red and her voice as unreliable as mine. They
offered burlesqued apologies and when she started to read again they took up rapt postures,
made swooning faces, crossed their eyes, flung their hands over their hearts. Sometimes she
would burst into tears, there was no help for it, she had to run out into the hall. Then the boys
made loud mooing noises; our hungry laughter—oh, mine too—pursued her. There was a
carnival atmosphere of brutality in the room at such times, scaring weak and suspect people like
me.But what was really going on in the school was not Business Practice and Science and English,
there was something else that gave life its urgency and brightness. That old building, with its
rock­walled clammy basements and black cloakrooms and pictures of dead royalties and lost
explorers, was full of the tension and excitement of sexual competition, and in this, in spite of
daydreams of vast successes, I had premonitions of total defeat. Something had to happen, to
keep me from that dance.
With December came snow, and I had an idea. Formerly I had considered falling off my bicycle
and spraining my ankle and I had tried to manage this, as I rode home along the hard­frozen,
deeply rutted country roads. But it was too difficult. However, my throat and bronchial tubes were
supposed to be weak; why not expose them? I started getting out of bed at night and opening my
window a little. I knelt down and let the wind, sometimes stinging with snow, rush in around my
bared throat. I took off my pajama top. I said to myself the words “blue with cold” and as I knelt
there, my eyes shut, I pictured my chest and throat turning blue, the cold, greyed blue of veins
under the skin. I stayed until I could not stand it any more, and then I took a handful of snow from
the windowsill and smeared it all over my chest, before I buttoned my pajamas. It would melt
against the flannelette and I would be sleeping in wet clothes, which was supposed to be the
worst thing of all. In the morning, the moment I woke up, I cleared my throat, testing for
soreness, coughed experimentally, hopefully, touched my forehead to see if I had fever. It was no
good. Every morning, including the day of the dance, I rose defeated, and in perfect health.
The day of the dance I did my hair up in steel curlers. I had never done this before, because my
hair was naturally curly, but today I wanted the protection of all possible female rituals. I lay on
the couch in the kitchen, reading The Last Days of Pompeii, and wishing I was there. My mother,
never satisfied, was sewing a white lace collar on the dress; she had decided it was too
grown­up looking. I watched the hours. It was one of the shortest days of the year. Above the
couch, on the wallpaper, were old games of Xs and Os, old drawings and scribblings my brother
and I had done when we were sick with bronchitis. I looked at them and longed to be back safe
behind the boundaries of childhood.
When I took out the curlers my hair, both naturally and artificially stimulated, sprang out in an
exuberant glossy bush. I wet it, I combed it, beat it with the brush and tugged it down along my
cheeks. I applied face powder, which stood out chalkily on my hot face. My mother got out her
Ashes of Roses Cologne, which she never used, and let me splash it over my arms. Then she
zipped up the dress and turned me around to the mirror. The dress was princess style, very tight
in the midriff. I saw how my breasts, in their new stiff brassiere, jutted out surprisingly, with
mature authority, under the childish frills of the collar.
“Well I wish I could take a picture,” my mother said. “I am really, genuinely proud of that fit. And
you might say thank you for it.”
“Thank you,” I said.
The first thing Lonnie said when I opened the door to her was, “Jesus, what did you do to your
hair?”
“I did it up.”
“You look like a Zulu. Oh, don’t worry. Get me a comb and I’ll do the front in a roll. It’ll look all right.
It’ll even make you look older.”
I sat in front of the mirror and Lonnie stood behind me, fixing my hair. My mother seemed unableto leave us. I wished she would. She watched the roll take shape and said, “You’re a wonder,
Lonnie. You should take up hairdressing.”
“That’s a thought,” Lonnie said. She had on a pale blue crepe dress, with a peplum and bow; it
was much more grown­up than mine even without the collar. Her hair had come out as sleek as
the girl’s on the bobby­pin card. I had always thought secretly that Lonnie could not be pretty
because she had crooked teeth, but now I saw that crooked teeth or not, her stylish dress and
smooth hair made me look a little like a golliwog, stuffed into red velvet, wide­eyed, wild­haired,
with a suggestion of delirium.
My mother followed us to the door and called out into the dark, “Au reservoir!” This was a
traditional farewell of Lonnie’s and mine; it sounded foolish and desolate coming from her, and I
was so angry with her for using it that I did not reply. It was only Lonnie who called back
cheerfully, encouragingly, “Good night!”
The gymnasium smelled of pine and cedar. Red and green bells of fluted paper hung from the
basketball hoops; the high, barred windows were hidden by green boughs. Everybody in the
upper grades seemed to have come in couples. Some of the Grade Twelve and Thirteen girls
had brought boy friends who had already graduated, who were young businessmen around the
town. These young men smoked in the gymnasium, nobody could stop them, they were free.
The girls stood beside them, resting their hands casually on male sleeves, their faces bored,
aloof and beautiful. I longed to be like that. They behaved as if only they—the older ones—were
really at the dance, as if the rest of us, whom they moved among and peered around, were, if not
invisible, inanimate; when the first dance was announced—a Paul Jones—they moved out
languidly, smiling at each other as if they had been asked to take part in some half­forgotten
childish game. Holding hands and shivering, crowding up together, Lonnie and I and the other
Grade Nine girls followed.
I didn’t dare look at the outer circle as it passed me, for fear I should see some unmannerly
hurrying­up. When the music stopped I stayed where I was, and half­raising my eyes I saw a boy
named Mason Williams coming reluctantly towards me. Barely touching my waist and my
fingers, he began to dance with me. My legs were hollow, my arm trembled from the shoulder, I
could not have spoken. This Mason Williams was one of the heroes of the school; he played
basketball and hockey and walked the halls with an air of royal sullenness and barbaric
contempt. To have to dance with a nonentity like me was as offensive to him as having to
memorize Shakespeare. I felt this as keenly as he did, and imagined that he was exchanging
looks of dismay with his friends. He steered me, stumbling, to the edge of the floor. He took his
hand from my waist and dropped my arm.
“See you,” he said. He walked away.
It took me a minute or two to realize what had happened and that he was not coming back. I
went and stood by the wall alone. The Physical Education teacher, dancing past energetically in
the arms of a Grade Ten boy, gave me an inquisitive look. She was the only teacher in the
school who made use of the words social adjustment, and I was afraid that if she had seen, or if
she found out, she might make some horribly public attempt to make Mason finish out the dance
with me. I myself was not angry or surprised at Mason; I accepted his position, and mine, in the
world of school and I saw that what he had done was the realistic thing to do. He was a NaturalHero, not a Student Council type of hero bound for success beyond the school; one of those
would have danced with me courteously and patronizingly and left me feeling no better off. Still, I
hoped not many people had seen. I hated people seeing. I began to bite the skin on my thumb.
When the music stopped I joined the surge of girls to the end of the gymnasium. Pretend it didn’t
happen, I said to myself. Pretend this is the beginning, now.
The band began to play again. There was movement in the dense crowd at our end of the floor, it
thinned rapidly. Boys came over, girls went out to dance. Lonnie went. The girl on the other side
of me went. Nobody asked me. I remembered a magazine article Lonnie and I had read, which
said Be gay! Let the boys see your eyes sparkle, let them hear laughter in your voice! Simple,
obvious, but how many girls forget! It was true, I had forgotten. My eyebrows were drawn
together with tension, I must look scared and ugly. I took a deep breath and tried to loosen my
face. I smiled. But I felt absurd, smiling at no one. And I observed that girls on the dance floor,
popular girls, were not smiling; many of them had sleepy, sulky faces and never smiled at all.
Girls were still going out to the floor. Some, despairing, went with each other. But most went with
boys. Fat girls, girls with pimples, a poor girl who didn’t own a good dress and had to wear a skirt
and sweater to the dance; they were claimed, they danced away. Why take them and not me?
Why everybody else and not me? I have a red velvet dress, I did my hair in curlers, I used a
deodorant and put on cologne. Pray, I thought. I couldn’t close my eyes but I said over and over
again in my mind, Please, me, please, and I locked my fingers behind my back in a sign more
potent than crossing, the same secret sign Lonnie and I used not to be sent to the blackboard in
Math.
It did not work. What I had been afraid of was true. I was going to be left. There was something
mysterious the matter with me, something that could not be put right like bad breath or
overlooked like pimples, and everybody knew it, and I knew it; I had known it all along. But I had
not known it for sure, I had hoped to be mistaken. Certainty rose inside me like sickness. I
hurried past one or two girls who were also left and went into the girls’ washroom. I hid myself in
a cubicle.
That was where I stayed. Between dances girls came in and went out quickly. There were plenty
of cubicles; nobody noticed that I was not a temporary occupant. During the dances, I listened to
the music which I liked but had no part of any more. For I was not going to try any more. I only
wanted to hide in here, get out without seeing anybody, get home.
One time after the music started somebody stayed behind. She was taking a long time running
the water, washing her hands, combing her hair. She was going to think it funny that I stayed in
so long. I had better go out and wash my hands, and maybe while I was washing them she
would leave.
It was Mary Fortune. I knew her by name, because she was an officer of the Girls’ Athletic
Society and she was on the Honour Roll and she was always organizing things. She had
something to do with organizing this dance; she had been around to all the classrooms asking
for volunteers to do the decorations. She was in Grade Eleven or Twelve.
“Nice and cool in here,” she said. “I came in to get cooled off. I get so hot.”
She was still combing her hair when I finished my hands. “Do you like the band?” she said.
“It’s all right.” I didn’t really know what to say. I was surprised at her, an older girl, taking this time
to talk to me.“I don’t. I can’t stand it. I hate dancing when I don’t like the band. Listen. They’re so choppy. I’d
just as soon not dance as dance to that.”
I combed my hair. She leaned against a basin, watching me.
“I don’t want to dance and don’t particularly want to stay in here. Let’s go and have a cigarette.”
“Where?”
“Come on, I’ll show you.”
At the end of the washroom there was a door. It was unlocked and led into a dark closet full of
mops and pails. She had me hold the door open, to get the washroom light, until she found the
knob of another door. This door opened into darkness.
“I can’t turn on the light or somebody might see,” she said. “It’s the janitor’s room.” I reflected that
athletes always seemed to know more than the rest of us about the school as a building; they
knew where things were kept and they were always coming out of unauthorized doors with a
bold, preoccupied air. “Watch out where you’re going,” she said. “Over at the far end there’s
some stairs. They go up to a closet on the second floor. The door’s locked at the top, but there’s
like a partition between the stairs and the room. So if we sit on the steps, even if by chance
someone did come in here, they wouldn’t see us.”
“Wouldn’t they smell smoke?” I said.
“Oh, well. Live dangerously.”
There was a high window over the stairs which gave us a little light. Mary Fortune had cigarettes
and matches in her purse. I had not smoked before except the cigarettes Lonnie and I made
ourselves, using papers and tobacco stolen from her father; they came apart in the middle.
These were much better.
“The only reason I even came tonight,” Mary Fortune said, “is because I am responsible for the
decorations and I wanted to see, you know, how it looked once people got in there and
everything. Otherwise why bother? I’m not boy­crazy.”
In the light from the high window I could see her narrow, scornful face, her dark skin pitted with
acne, her teeth pushed together at the front, making her look adult and commanding.
“Most girls are. Haven’t you noticed that? The greatest collection of boy­crazy girls you could
imagine is right here in this school.”
I was grateful for her attention, her company and her cigarette. I said I thought so too.
“Like this afternoon. This afternoon I was trying to get them to hang the bells and junk. They just
get up on the ladders and fool around with boys. They don’t care if it ever gets decorated. It’s just
an excuse. That’s the only aim they have in life, fooling around with boys. As far as I’m
concerned, they’re idiots.”
We talked about teachers, and things at school. She said she wanted to be a physical education
teacher and she would have to go to college for that, but her parents did not have enough
money. She said she planned to work her own way through, she wanted to be independent
anyway, she would work in the cafeteria and in the summer she would do farm work, like picking
tobacco. Listening to her, I felt the acute phase of my unhappiness passing. Here was someone
who had suffered the same defeat as I had—I saw that—but she was full of energy and
self­respect. She had thought of other things to do. She would pick tobacco.
We stayed there talking and smoking during the long pause in the music, when, outside, they
were having doughnuts and coffee. When the music started again Mary said, “Look, do we haveto hang around here any longer? Let’s get our coats and go. We can go down to Lee’s and have
a hot chocolate and talk in comfort, why not?”
We felt our way across the janitor’s room, carrying ashes and cigarette butts in our hands. In the
closet, we stopped and listened to make sure there was nobody in the washroom. We came
back into the light and threw the ashes into the toilet. We had to go out and cut across the
dance­floor to the cloakroom, which was beside the outside door.
A dance was just beginning. “Go round the edge of the floor,” Mary said. “Nobody’ll notice us.”
I followed her. I didn’t look at anybody. I didn’t look for Lonnie. Lonnie was probably not going to
be my friend any more, not as much as before anyway. She was what Mary would call
boy­crazy.
I found that I was not so frightened, now that I had made up my mind to leave the dance behind. I
was not waiting for anybody to choose me. I had my own plans. I did not have to smile or make
signs for luck. It did not matter to me. I was on my way to have a hot chocolate, with my friend.
A boy said something to me. He was in my way. I thought he must be telling me that I had
dropped something or that I couldn’t go that way or that the cloakroom was locked. I didn’t
understand that he was asking me to dance until he said it over again. It was Raymond Bolting
from our class, whom I had never talked to in my life. He thought I meant yes. He put his hand on
my waist and almost without meaning to, I began to dance.
We moved to the middle of the floor. I was dancing. My legs had forgotten to tremble and my
hands to sweat. I was dancing with a boy who had asked me. Nobody told him to, he didn’t have
to, he just asked me. Was it possible, could I believe it, was there nothing the matter with me
after all?
I thought that I ought to tell him there was a mistake, that I was just leaving, I was going to have a
hot chocolate with my girl friend. But I did not say anything. My face was making certain delicate
adjustments, achieving with no effort at all the grave absent­minded look of these who were
chosen, those who danced. This was the face that Mary Fortune saw, when she looked out of
the cloakroom door, her scarf already around her head. I made a weak waving motion with the
hand that lay on the boy’s shoulder, indicating that I apologized, that I didn’t know what had
happened and also that it was no use waiting for me. Then I turned my head away, and when I
looked again she was gone.
Raymond Bolting took me home and Harold Simons took Lonnie home. We all walked together
as far as Lonnie’s corner. The boys were having an argument about a hockey game, which
Lonnie and I could not follow. Then we separated into couples and Raymond continued with me
the conversation he had been having with Harold. He did not seem to notice that he was now
talking to me instead. Once or twice I said, “Well I don’t know I didn’t see that game,” but after a
while I decided just to say, “H’m, hmm,” and that seemed to be all that was necessary.
One other thing he said was, “I didn’t realize you lived such a long ways out.” And he sniffled.
The cold was making my nose run a little too, and I worked my fingers through the candy
wrappers in my coat pocket until I found a shabby Kleenex. I didn’t know whether I ought to offer
it to him or not, but he sniffled so loudly that I finally said, “I just have this one Kleenex, it probably
isn’t even clean, it probably has ink on it. But if I was to tear it in half we’d each have something.”
“Thanks,” he said. “I sure could use it.”It was a good thing, I thought, that I had done that, for at my gate, when I said, “Well, good night,”
and after he said, “Oh, yeah. Good night,” he leaned towards me and kissed me, briefly, with the
air of one who knew his job when he saw it, on the corner of my mouth. Then he turned back to
town, never knowing he had been my rescuer, that he had brought me from Mary Fortune’s
territory into the ordinary world.
I went around the house to the back door, thinking, I have been to a dance and a boy has walked
me home and kissed me. It was all true. My life was possible. I went past the kitchen window and
I saw my mother. She was sitting with her feet on the open oven door, drinking tea out of a cup
without a saucer. She was just sitting and waiting for me to come home and tell her everything
that had happened. And I would not do it, I never would. But when I saw the waiting kitchen, and my mother in her faded,